When my husband and I first met, we connected mostly because of the love we have for our Inupiaq culture and for the appreciation for the same type of music. Although he and I have a different musical background from one another, we both agreed that it was important to play as well as listen to music. One of the first songs that we decided to learn to play together was “Patience” By Guns N’ Roses, which was released in 1989. This song is not only pleasing to my ears, but is also very close to my heart because of the bond my husband and I created while learning to play this song together.
Melody and Accompaniment
The first time I listen to a song, I never pay attention to the message the singer or band is trying to convey to the audience. Sometimes I would have to listen to a song a hundred times before I even think to look up the lyrics to understand it better. The majority of the time, my focus is on the melody or the emotions that the song creates for me.
“Patience” starts out with the accompaniment of a guitar and the lead vocalist whistling. The vocalist then starts singing. His voice is smooth and the melody is very relaxing and calm, but not so slow that it would make me feel impatient or agitated. The vocalist sings the first verse then chorus, second verse, chorus again, then it slides into a guitar solo, finally finishing with the outro. It is a very repetitive and straightforward song that many people can follow along with.
Lyrics
I could not find a lot of information or articles on this particular song. However, I did read that this song was somewhat of a trailblazer for men to get in touch with their emotions while not looking weak or womanlike. Another one that seemed to be popping up a lot was that this song was about troubled relationships that never ended up working out. In my opinion, I simply do not agree. I’m not sure if it is because of my personal experience with this song or not, but I only see this as a love song. My interpretation is that a couple is going through a difficult time, but succeeding in the end because of the love they have for one another.
Chords
As far as the chords of the song are concerned, I believe them to be very simple like the melody of the song. It’s easy for me to say something is simple to learn when I’ve had years of experience with reading music and playing instruments, but I believe this song is actually very effortless. Not to go off on a tangent, but I stated earlier my husband and I have very different musical backgrounds. His school did not offer music (and still doesn’t), so he never learned how to read music or learn how to play instruments at school. Instead, he taught himself how to play guitar (as well as other instruments). For him, learning the chords and rhythm was very easy and he got the hang of it within a few minutes. Of course I believe that someone would have to be invested in learning how to play this song and it isn’t completely painless for anyone that doesn’t even know where to begin.
This song will always bring me fond memories whether or not it’s about heartbreak. I still don’t pay attention to a lot of the lyrics because, for me, music is not about the words. The most important part are the emotions that arise while listening. For me, this song is a de-stressor.
Sources
Potsiadlo, David. “How to Play ‘Patience’ by Guns N’ Roses – Chords, Lyrics, and Guitar Tabs from Songnotes.” How to Play ‘Patience’ by Guns N’ Roses – Chords, Lyrics, and Guitar Tabs From, David Potsiadlo, http://www.songnotes.cc/songs/95-guns-n-roses-patience.
“Guns and Roses – Patience – Lyrics Meaning.” Guns and Roses – Patience – Lyrics Meaning – Song Descriptions, Song Meanings, Music Videos, http://www.musicbanter.com/lyrics/Guns-and-roses-patience.html

